Conditional love is clearly defined as just that, its a love that comes with conditions. However it can be relationship with a spouse, a friend, or your parents, conditional love does not feel good.  When in a conditional love relationship you must identify that its conditional love and act accordingly.  Conditional love is something no one wants.  However, if in a romantic relationship and your partner is honest its up to you to do whats best for you.   Often we participate in relationships that are conditional and are not aware because we miss all the signs.  

 8 tips that might help identify if your receiving conditionall love

# You never feel good enough

#They drain your energy just because

#You dread seeing them, at the same time look forward to seeing them 

#They express love and pride in public ( if they can do it in public why not in private)

#They fall short in the “little moments”, missing all the important things

#You’ve caught them gaslighting you (or someone else)…..your always the problem

#They’re highly judgmental of everything you

#They keep “score” ( I did this for you, I, I, I, I, or when I, I,I,I,)

Have you ever experienced conditional love?  How have you dealt with it?  Leave a comment below and let us know how you dealt with receiving conditional love.