What is the spice of life? They saying the spice of life inplies that life is more interesting and enjoyable when it includes many different things. It is up to you to determine what makes you happy and decide if it's worth it to you when you're in a relationship, marriage or even a friendship. Often when we get involved in a relationship / friendship or even when dealing with family members we let go of some of our needs, wants and desires to please our partners, friends or family members without having a conversation about the subject. We tip toe around each other waiting for change never having a conversation therefore the other party or parties have no clue. Communication is key and relationships are hard. In a relationship you have to give and take but making a sacrifice without communication will never work. What are some of the thing you do to communicate your wants, needs and desires to your partner, friends or family members? Please share some of your experiences that worked or didn't work for you.